A Last Look Around


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I tried very hard to get us all away for Memorial Day weekend.  But there were just too many obstacles and in retrospect, although it was boring being stuck in the apartment, staying home really turned out to be the responsible thing to do.  But I wanted to take one more trip to see this country that is so much more than Manila, but so hard for us to schedule time to explore.  There’s so much I haven’t seen and wanted to:  Batanes, Bagio, Bohol… and the questions were:  With one more trip possibility left where would we go? Did we want to try to cross off from the wish list, or did we want to revisit something that we loved?  This question made me stop and think about all the wonderful opportunities that I’ve had over the past two years to explore the Philippines, but that recap really is a post for another day.  The bottom line is I wanted to be out in the Filipino countryside, away from the city, away from tourist traps and all the hyperbole surrounding them.  I really just wanted to go for a walk somewhere pretty.

Going for a walk in the Philippines isn’t always that easy.  In Manila I haven’t enjoyed walking city blocks.  The lights are out on every other corner, and even when they work the drivers pay no attention to pedestrian rights.  You take your life in your hands every time you cross the street, which is not very relaxing to say the least.

We’ve had amazing hiking adventures here…some of my best memories.  But its not easy… not really a simple walk in the countryside…. and has usually involved a guide. Its hard to be a female foreigner walking around in small rural villages.  I end up feeling either vulnerable or voyeuristic.  But there was one place that I remember feeling very comfortable walking around and we never got to explore nearly enough – a pretty coastal stretch on Negros, near Dumaguete, where I was a Hammock Potato six months ago.  Now that was real countryside and walking territory without obstacles or issues, with a beautiful view and peace and quiet.  So it was decided that our last look around would be the familiar – Dumaguete and its peaceful cliffs and a little hammock swinging for good measure.  Here are some sights of the Filipino countryside that I will really miss.  I doubt we will have a chance to see them again:

Filipino Countryside

Starting off along the low grassy cliffs

Past thorny footpaths that reminded us of Devon hedgerows

Past thorny footpaths that reminded us of Devon hedgerows

Through tall, sunburnt grasses mixed with fragrant sage-like, woody shrubs.

Through tall, sunburnt grasses mixed with fragrant sage-like, woody shrubs.

Past spiky "house plants" gone mad!

Past spiky “house plants” gone mad

With bursts of colour from brilliant Acaia-type trees

and bursts of colour from brilliant Acaia-type trees.

Pretty white bushes decorated the scene

Pretty white bushes decorated the scene

and made a tasty lunch for the tethered cows.

and made a tasty lunch for the tethered cows

Who take their post-lunch siesta in the same spot every day (those are cow craters).

who take their post-lunch siesta in the same spot every day (those are cow craters).

Trees with leaves like clouds frame the sky

Trees with leaves like clouds frame the sky

 and in the distance the mountains remind us that that this pastoral scene eventually meets the jungle

and in the distance the mountains remind us that that this pastoral scene eventually meets the jungle

Hiking Pico de Loro


Pico de Loro Michelle and I hadn’t been hiking since The West Highland Way in Scotland. And prior to that The Banaue Rice Terraces  and Pinatubo Volcano were our last Filipino hiking experiences at least a year ago.  As we are both leaving the Philippines this summer, we wanted to get at least another one in before we leave.  We’d already missed the cooler months of December through March, and the only non-weekend day remaining on the calendar before departure was May 1…..so May 1 it was..hot or not!

Its amazing how having a hiking goal helps kick me into gear in the gym.  I went from dragging myself down there once a week on a Sunday to going 4-5 times/week on a mission.  (Note to self:  How about always having a hike planned?  It should be easy in Nepal!)

Pico de Loro

Pico de Loro

Pico de Loro is located in Ternate, in Cavite province, about a 2 hour drive from Manila. A friend had recommended to Michelle as an accessible day trip, not too difficult, on a well-marked trail, and I think that’s a pretty good summary of the hike.  As with all hikes here, its an up and down event (rather than cross-country).  I heard different times reported on how long it would take.  For us it was 7 hours roundtrip (which would probably would have been 6 hours if I hadn’t kept making us stop!)  Alot of the hiking is a more gradual climb, although there is a steep hour or so in the middle.  I found this exhausting in the heat as I couldn’t handle hiking sticks and a water bottle at the same time. ( I can’t believe I still don’t own a hydration system of some description.)  In general, I found the heat unbearable and I remember how exhausting Pinatubo was for just that reason.  There were times when I had to remind myself how great it was to be out of the city – and it really was….  Manila is not the Philippines, but it is so easy to forget sometimes.

Pico de Loro

May 1 is a Filipino holiday and I understand Pico de Loro is a popular hiking destination for college kids.  It was lucky we went as early as we did as the groups started to arrive in throngs after us.  At first I was taken aback how many kids were coming from behind, but they were the nicest people.  One group that over took us (because of my huffing and puffing) was kind enough to wait at a split in the path to make sure we took the right route.  And when I took a well earned break on the main ridge, they kindly offered to share all their food with me.  Really nice kids.  Many of them were staying the night and little camp sites starting going up all around.  While I waited for the others to come back from their attempt to ascend the beak, I watched a marriage proposal on a nearby rock.  Very cute.

They do need learn the hiker’s mantra that I was taught though:  take nothing, and leave nothing behind.  It was pretty clean up there, not too much litter, but it wasn’t litter free either.  And when I saw the piles and piles of plastic garbage at base camp that had been collected from a very recent clean up campaign, I understood how bad it could really get. I’m glad I didn’t get to see that.

The trail is marked as easy, and it is really – except for the heat.  Especially by Filipino standards where trails can involve climbing and ropes.  The beak itself I did not attempt, as rope climbing is not for me, but braver souls than me made it all the way to the top.  An accessible day hike from Manila.  Best done with an early start, December-February on a non-holiday weekday for a little more peace and solitude…

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“Its the Final Countdown” ….


boredyoga30 days. I have to admit to feeling a little schizophrenic during this final phase.  I seem to oscillate between bored (with a bad dose of cabin fever) and peacefully calm; (watching all the pieces fall in place).  Notice I’m not frantic, frustrated, or overwhelmed at any point so far.  Should I be?  There’s also been a few waves of sadness as the goodbyes and final landmarks start to appear….and there will be plenty more of those.  The hardest part will always be leaving the people, not matter how much I miss the palm trees and beautiful beaches.  At times everything feels so mapped out, and we are just working down the list, checking boxes.   But there have been a couple of physical injuries that have thrown a spanner into the works, which just serve as a reminder that the unexpected is always a possibility and I am grateful that despite them it all seems to be working out.

My goal is to spend the next month best enjoying what remains (Latham’s graduation, last trips around Manila and the Philippines, last time with friends and last favourite things) and the least stressful exit I can manage…

SM Aura Revisited


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Construction in Sept 2012

In the usual Sim City style of BGC, SM Aura was built, opened, and packed with people in the blink of an eye.

SM Aura in May 2013

SM Aura in May 2013

I’ve been keeping track on this blog for 2+ years on the rapidly changing face of Fort Bonifacio.  I had planned to do one more post just before we leave which was supposed to include a revisit of the latest significant addition: SM Aura.  However, the building’s opening was uncooperative, with it’s official launch was last Friday led by none other than Sarah Jessica Parker who happens to be in town shooting a new movie.  Therefore, so as not to be the last person in the world to report on this, I am going to do a couple of comparison shots now between last September (as in my blog post then) and today but –fear not– I will do one more construction update next month.

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I’ve seen some detailed pictures of the grocery store in the basement, which would probably be our reason for visiting on a regular basis, plus maybe the movie house.  There’s also a Kultura in house, which is good for visitors, and a “sky park” on the roof with some trees and places to eat.  It looks like a pretty spot if it wasn’t too crowded.

I haven’t summoned the courage to go yet, as the crowds were so massive this weekend.  Perhaps I can go on first thing on a rainy Tuesday morning next week, just to say I did?  I’ll save any further comments until I see for myself.

On belonging…


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The Filipino sense of community is very different from the Western individualistic approach to life.  I notice how it plays a part in so many things here, contrasting daily in positive and negative ways.  Really understanding another culture takes time, and after two years I only feel like I’m beginning comprehend the nuances of so many things that go on around me.

Some things are more obvious.  Brand new in Manila, the very first thing you notice is how common uniforms are.  They are everywhere.  Every store has one and it not just about branding, although branding is very big here.  I think they are partly about clothing allowance as wages are so low, but there’s much more to it that that.  As I child, I refused to join the Brownies because I didn’t want to wear a uniform.  Very early on, I had developed some basic individualist leanings.  Here it’s just the opposite.  Very early on the emphasis is on belonging and collective responsibility.

My first experience with Filipino kids was playing at an orphanage in Makati.  After games were over it was time to clean up, and it was pretty amazing to watch.  The kids knew everything that needed to be done: brooms appeared, litter disappeared, and balls and toys were back where they belonged in seconds with no words spoken.  By contrast, yesterday, after an American family party, I went to the games room to clean up.  I asked the kids to help me pick up.  Their shoulders slouched, their arms went limp and they looked at me in horror.  They couldn’t slide out the door fast enough!

But the cookie crumbles both ways.  We raise independent kids who are raised to think for themselves.  I watch my son at 17 have a pretty clear idea of who he is and what he wants, and that makes me happy.    I want him to listen to his parents advice — we are the experienced ones after all — but to balance it with an awareness of his own needs.  Then he has ownership of his decisions, including his own mistakes and the responsibility to actually learn from them.  I see many Filipino kids that appear to have had their decision-making capacity removed and only know how to act by the rules.  It frustrating to watch, and infuriating at times to experience an adult who refuses to apply logic or adapt rules in a sensible way.

Nowhere do these two paths seem more distinctly different than at the international high school where Western kids parents’ complain about failing grades and how their kids “just don’t care”, and Asian kids whose parents’ rule their schedules, leaving little social time for their kids. I see them in the elevator at 8 o’clock at night returning from a tutor, still in their school uniform.

Its clear that communities are important everywhere, and many aspects of Western society aren’t looking too healthy these days.  There’s a lot the West could re-learn about community responsibility from the Filipinos.  On the other side, placing rigid limits on individual expression suppresses creativity and growth, and Americans have individual expressionism down pat.  There’s no right or wrong way, but plenty of opportunity for open mindedness on both sides.

Its not lost of me how ironic it is that that the Philippines strives to emulate American culture in so many ways, but deep down it is so different.  Living here for the past two years and watching the two cultures blend, clash, combine and adapt has been a continual learning experience and one I am very grateful to been around.  It will be one of my biggest takeaways from my time here.

Jakarta: Final Thoughts


Jakarta reminded me of so many different places I’ve been before. That certainly includes Manila, my first stop in all comparisons, of course.  The noise, traffic and conjestion of Manila and Jakarta, I’ve already explored, but these certainly weren’t the only similarities.  Third world living, the street vendors, the crowds, the omnipresent black mildew, the smells and urban scenery were much like Manila too.

But other places and memories continuously flashed through my mind, often emerging from far and long ago.  Here’s a few references I dug up:

Turkey:  The mixture of orthodox and non-orthodox dress; the islamic faith without arabs; and the language.  Kinda sounded like a mixture of Turkish, Malaysian and Pilipino.  Very guttural. Very interesting how many Tagalog words I encountered that were the same spelling but with different meanings (salamat: thank you in Tagalog / selamat: welcome in Bahasa); Seeing English words like Bank, Computer or Inspection spelt as they sound in Latin letters, without the confidence and familiarity of English that we see in the Philippines.

Eastern Europe:  The over-the-top national monuments and aging concrete monuments to previous leaders.  It reminded me somewhat of 1960s communist European countries; seeing smaller, cheaper cars (a la Skoda) on the streets. Even the motorcycle drivers reminded me of Eastern Europe in the winter.  Not the bikes themselves, but the bikers clothing.  Bundled up on the bikes for protection (in the heat!) I saw their jackets juxapositioned against the old concrete water fountains and I was back in 1980, in Yugoslavia, in the Winter.  Weird.

Visiting for a just few days is such a limited way to get to know somewhere.  A bit like only visiting someone during a particular point in time, in only one room, with no idea about the rest of their time or space.   But fair or not, first impressions will always be made.  And here a few unique ones that I will always remember as part of my Jakarta experience:

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The mosque just outside the front gate. Yes, it was close! Didn’t hear the 5am chanting after the second day though ;o

  • Swimming in the pool on a very hazy hot afternoon, after an intense rainfall.  The chanting from the nearby mosque loud and obnoxious over the speakers.  The sky so hazy and bright yellow from the smog that the sun could barely break through.  It felt like a science fiction movie.
  • Parking in Jakarta.  Wherever we went to park, especially in malls – but anywhere – there suddenly and mysteriously a parking assistant would appear….as if by magic.  Sometimes it was very helpful.  Sometimes it was completely unnecessary.  It always involved a tip.
  • Kite flying. I never got clear on whether this was attached to the Easter holiday or if it was just a local customs.  But the kids hung out in the street flying kites, stray ones were wrapped around telephone poles, and one captured kite hung from the neighbor’s roof, flapping at us the whole time we were there.

60 Days: The Countdown Continues


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We just passed the “60 days ‘til departure” mark.  And as I flick back to my “90 days” and 120 day posts, I realise that we have come a long way…both practically and mentally.  The departure still feels like its in slow motion – it will have been an eleven month process after all – but I do feel a sense of progress and an end in sight as we have tied down various inspection dates and the all important pack out date in June.  Its certainly nowhere near as hectic as our New Jersey departure.  (Preparing the house to sell and trying to sell the damn thing was overwhelming.)  I’m also not a hoarder so we don’t have piles and piles of stuff to clear through, and what needs sorting has been processed.

We’re starting to tie down details in Kathmandu also, and have our new housing assignment, and college details are coming together. Now we just have to pass through Latham’s finals, a three week tunnel that we are just entering now.  Time is definitely speeding up, every week seems a little shorter, and the landmark dates and experiences check themselves off….  See you at the 30 day mark. ;o)

Jakarta: Batavia and the Old Port


Old Jakarta (or Batavia as christened by the Dutch) still has remnants of days gone by.  Unlike Manila,  I don’t think it suffered intense bombing during the second world war, and therefore didn’t lose so many of its historical buildings.  But there’s hardly an Altstadt either.   Nonetheless, we went down to have a look around, starting at the famous Sunda Kelapa docks.  The docks were lined as far as the eye could see with old schooners that are still sailing all over Indonesia, carrying cargos to the many, many islands of the archipelago.  Most of them have hoists nowadays so loading is partially mechanized, but they are also loaded by hand just as they were for hundreds of years.  The schooners were In various stages of care or neglect, and we walked along the extremely hot dock to see them closer up.  Had it no been so brain-boilingly hot, it would have been fun to walk to the end and see just how many there were.  But it was literally too hot to walk, think or breathe.  (Funny how most photos can’t capture how hot it is!)  Instead we shortened the tour to see just a few in details. Lethargic sailors squatted on their decks but, as I am always too concerned about being voyageristic, I didn’t capture their faces.  I just walked past, wondering what it must be like to live and work year round in those conditions.  Very hard indeed.  I can only imagine.

The area was very poor with a few vendors selling snacks and drinks to the sailors, but interestingly there was also some evidence of attempts at attracting tourists…(old signs in English, postcards of the docks) but clearly it hadn’t been a success.  Too bad as it was worth seeing and, if there had been a little shade somewhere, I might have stayed longer.  An interesting place; I really felt like I had stepped back into the 17th century.

Schooners at Jakarta Dockyard

Sundra Kelapa Docks, Old Jakarta

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Walking along the blazingly hot docks

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Sundra Kelapa loading

After we left the docks, we headed to a well known seafood place aptly named Sunda Kelapa Seafood Restaurant.  Honestly, I would never have known to stop there.  It didn’t look like much from the outside, but inside the walls were covered with photos of Indonesian famous folk and politicians – proving that the word is out on the food here.  It was too early to have lunch and the place was empty when we walked in.  It must have just opened, but it quickly filled up during our stay.  We had drinks to rehydrate after the docks, and some sample seafood dishes to try out the food.  And the food was good…we sampled grilled prawns, stuffed squid and various other tasty seafood dishes during our short stay.  Next, we moved on to the central square in Batavia.

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Batavia square, colonial building in old Jakarta

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Square outside Cafe Batavia

Here the Governors House is the main attraction, along with Cafe Batavia, a museum and some old colonial structures still awaiting renovation.  The square was a mix of wandering people: vendors selling souvenirs to school groups and Indonesian tourists (as well as a few foreign ones), lots of people on bicycles (I got the impression that someone was renting them to tourists), and others just hanging out in the small spaces of shade that could be found.  We headed over to the airconditioning and restored colonial splendor of Cafe Batavia to have a look around and grab a cold drink.

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Wall of famous visitors to Cafe Batavia

Cafe Batavia was everything you’d expect from a historical restaurant in an old city.  They’d done an excellent job refitting it and recreating colonial elegance.  But along with that came high end tourism, New York drink prices, and I’m told overpriced, not very good food.  We didn’t eat there, so I can’t really comment.  But it was comfortable to sit in, interesting to see, and fun to watch the square below from the upstairs bar.

In Manila the only remaining part of the old city is Intramuras, a small warren of streets and buildings in the center of the city.  Manila has the World Heritage site, San Agustine Cathedral, as its highlight, and Jakarta has Batavia square and a number of surrounding streets.  Some attempt has been made in both cities to preserve them, and protect their countries heritage.  Neither cities are known as tourist destinations, and in third world countries where there are so many other economic priorities take precedence, its easy to see why historical preservation doesn’t make it very high up on the priority scale.  So preserved historical buildings are random and few.  Sad, but true.

Jakarta: Like Manila but with really good fabric!


A really fun activity to do in Jakarta is to go shopping for batik.

Everyone’s heard of batik, although I am learning it means a lot of different things to different people.  To me, it just meant a method of dyeing fabric using wax to create designs, which of course is accurate in a very general way.  What I didn’t even come close to understanding is the range and style of designs that Indonesia produces under the label batik.  It was pretty overwhelming in a very good way.

Pasaraya Department store batik

A tiny corner of the massive Pasaraya batik selection

We headed to Pasaraya department store in Jakarta to explore the batik offerings there.  I was in awe to see one very, very large floor devoted just to batik.  It took about 2 hours to make the full loop around as the choices and styles were so many.  Intricate fabric designs as far as the eye could see.  There were lengths of fabric and garments for men, women and children. Handbags, scarves, wall hangings…but particularly men’s shirts.  Thousands of them, in every size including Western men’s sizes.  It was sort of compelling and overwhelming at the same time to work through the different designs.  I found myself less attracted to the very traditional designs with borders around the bottom, preferring more repetitious patterns.   An influence of Western taste, I’m sure.

It took a while to accept the individuality of all the fabric pieces.  No two pieces were the same and the fact that they were sold in 2 meter lengths meant that if I wanted to make something myself with only one pattern, I was limited to something small.  I’m accustomed to buying fabric by the yard or metre, but these were handcrafted fabrics and designs, not mass produced bolts.  The prices were really reasonable for something so intricate and handmade.  A typical price for a 2 meter length was $30-60.  But it was also hard to commit that much cash to something that I liked but wasn’t sure how I was going to use it.

I ended up buying most of my fabric from a section called Batik Keris.  A bought table runners, a couple of dozen napkins, a scarf and a sarong.  Beautiful pieces and I later learnt that Batik Keris is one of the best known, higher quality manufacturers of batik in Indonesia.  Afterwards, I went to their website to learn a little about them and stumbled on this video which shows batik being made:

http://www.batikkeris-indonesia.com/proses

Its not hosted at YouTube so I don’t know how to embed it.  But its only six minutes and worth a watch.  I loved seeing the different designs come to life.  And it really explained to me why the lengths are 2 meters long!

Apparently the Pasaraya department store has another floor devoted only to wooden handicrafts.  I’d had enough shopping by the time I had finished with the batik, and the Philippines does wooden and raffia items very well.  So I decided not to visit, which was probably just as well as I’d spent quite enough already.

Walking around through all the different displays, after a while my eye started to tune into the different styles a little bit.  Of course, there were different traditional styles customs in different regions on Indonesia – or different islands probably.  I couldn’t even begin to figure out which was which.  But if you wanted to see, learn, and shop batik for a short flying visit to Jakarta.  I couldn’t think of a better spot.  Many thanks to Rika for taking me around.

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A selection of different batik designs. Where to start?!